If you find yourself procrastinating about what you are feeling with every guy you date, ask yourself, “Do I want to fall in love or do I want an authentic relationship?” Falling in love or being loved by someone is different than having a loving, consistent, and healthy commitment.
Take a moment for yourself and ask yourself the question: “What do I want?” If you’re feeling conflicted or confused that could mean your intention is weak. A clear message is the sign of a strong intention. Try asking “Am I prepared to wait for somebody who feels the same way I do?” Anyone who can comfortably wait will find that they will get what they need in one way or the other. If you’re not clear on the inside, you will project that and attract someone who is equally confused about commitment.
Acknowledge that you are looking for love. Real love. And know that you are attracting it into your life right now!
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