The truth is there is no way forward but through forgiveness––we must forgive ourselves.
Finding a love mate can involve rigorous work in regards to our own individual development. Whatever your system of belief, or non-belief, we all still struggle with the same existential questions. “Why am I here? What is my purpose?” And whatever it is you believe, the best practice is always to assume that our purpose here is to be happy. And to that purpose, to love. Not desire, which is often confused for love, but selfless love. The problem is most of us concentrate on bringing love in first and loving out second. It has to work the other way around. From there, we learn clarity.
The first step begins with finding stillness. It’s always within us. We just have to learn how to access it. Now take a breath and release. You may not know what your self-doubts are but your intention to release your fears will give you the clarity and courage to know what you are forgiving yourself for.