If you don’t know how to receive, or you can’t remember the last time you received a dozen roses, its time to shift your thinking and NOW.
The women who spoil themselves or take the time to buy the things they want, understand the value of receiving. In this way, they develop a healthy expectation that their lovers will treat them the same way as they treat themselves. And they DO!
Give yourself gifts. Be generous! By this, I do not mean that you have to squander your savings – just, take the time to pamper yourself with a series of small perfect gestures.
Introducing something new to your brain will help adapt and re-organize your neural pathways, and in no time your thought power will project “I love receiving beautiful things”. And you will… Why not put yourself first and create a new expectation.
Start with a single, simple, symbolic item: an item of beautiful lingerie; a bottle of new perfume, even if it’s a small scent; one rose – as opposed to a marigold, say – but something romantic. Just one.
Gift wrap everything you buy. You’re teaching yourself to receive gifts.
This tender generosity begins with you first.